Nigerian singer Tems, known for her soulful voice and introspective lyrics, recently shared her candid views on relationships, shedding light on the challenges she has faced in her personal life.
In a statement that has sparked conversations on social media, Tems revealed that despite being 25, she has never dated or kissed anyone.
"I want a deep relationship, but most Nigerian men just want to 'off pant' after two weeks," the singer said, referring to how quickly men push for physical intimacy. "The moment you say no to sex, they think you don’t love them. It’s hard to find men that truly want you for who you are."
Her remarks have opened up a broader conversation about societal pressures on women in relationships and the often unrealistic expectations placed on them.
Many young women have echoed her sentiment, while others reflect on the different standards they feel exist for men and women when it comes to intimacy.
Tems, who remains a virgin at 25, also called attention to how quickly some young people engage in physical relationships, stating, "But you, at 25, you already have 35 body counts," sparking a debate about personal choices and societal values.
As a rising star in the global music scene, Tems continues to be an influential voice, not only through her music but also in cultural conversations surrounding modern relationships and women's empowerment.