Nigerian rapper and actor Remilekun Khalid Safaru, popularly known as Reminisce, has ignited conversations surrounding gender dynamics and relationships with his recent remarks.
Speaking on the popular podcast "I Said What I Said," hosted by FK and Jola, Reminisce stated that "Women will never be satisfied," sparking discussions about the balance of expectations in relationships.
During the interview, Reminisce asserted that even if a man over-provides or invests time, a woman may still find reasons to complain.
"If you provide too much time, they will look at you like you're... you just have to strike the balance," he explained, underscoring his belief that no amount of effort or resources will fully meet a woman’s expectations.
Despite the controversial nature of his statements, Reminisce emphasized the traditional values instilled in him about caring for women, revealing how these beliefs guide his actions in his own family.
He spoke about the importance of responsibility, highlighting the way his father and grandfather before him lived their lives by always ensuring the financial security of the women in the family.
"When my wife needs money, I give it to her, even if she blows it. That’s how I was raised," he shared, stressing his deep-rooted commitment to providing for his wife and sisters.
However, the rapper also acknowledged the challenges of balancing his career with personal life, lamenting how his busy schedule has limited the time spent with his wife over the years.
Reminisce also drew a distinction between his traditional views and the more modern approach to shared responsibilities in relationships, stating that while he respects different choices, he believes in the man taking the primary role in caring for the family.
His remarks have fueled further discussions on social media, with people debating the expectations and roles of men and women in relationships today, as well as how tradition intersects with contemporary ideals.